Why Do People Treat Interracial Dating Differently?

An eyebrow will go up, a jaw will drop, or some eyes will pop wider when you say you are in an Interracial Relationship. It’s never dating as usual.

You can opine all men and women are the same regardless of their skin color, but you will not wish away the stares, the scrutiny, and sometimes undisguised disapproval.

Interracial Dating is widely treated differently than other kinds of dating. Some of the reasons as to why this happens include:

1. Fear of the Unknown

You may be head-over-heels in love with your African queen or Asian prince charming, but your family and friends might have reservations. Oftentimes, this is a result of lack of knowledge, or just misconceptions about a given race. In that case, your partner may face rejection.

2. Pain of Social Prejudice

According to the American Heritage College Dictionary, prejudice is “an adverse judgment or opinion formed beforehand or without knowledge or examination of the facts” or “irrational suspicion or hatred of a particular group, race or religion.”

Racism is a contentious subject. A topic that most people prefer to sweep under the carpet. However, there are people who don’t shy from disapproving interracial relationships. On the streets, they give interracial couples dagger eyes, say mean things, and in worse scenes assault them. Dealing with this is no walk in the park. It takes a lot of inner strength and that makes interracial dating different.

3. Cultural Differences

Every race has its own ways of being, and of doing things. Every race has its mannerisms, expectations, preferences, cultural practices, traditions, and heritage. Some are major, others are subtle, and others are largely common or acceptable across the board.

On the variation, the way an Asian man will treat his lady is different from the way a Caucasian or an African would. This is because the society that people grow up in does shape them. We grow to accept some things (good or bad) and behave a certain way thanks to what we saw around us as kids.

The things that matter or even days that are significant to a given race are not the same as another’s. For instance, Caucasians are keen on Birthdays, Africans are not. Caucasian men are known to find it easier to help around the house with chores, but that does not come naturally from African and Asian men. Additionally, Caucasian women are more expressive than their counterparts from other continents.

In an interracial relationship, such things might bring about unhealthy friction. To avoid the hassle, most people would rather stick to dating from their own race.

That said, dating from another race can be fun and very fulfilling. Thankfully, unlike in the past, finding a soul mate with a different skin color is only a click away. There so many Interracial Dating Sites, all dedicated to connecting couples from different races.

In 2015, USA Today reported that more than one-third of new marriages budded online. Matter of fact, one in every five relationships started on the internet.

With this new trend – of finding mates online, interracial dating gained popularity. It is estimated that 70% of interracial relationships began online.

The probable reason is that people who were yearning for interracial relationships but did not have an idea where to start their search now just need internet and a computer. Voila! exotic partner.

Some of those who are in Serious Interracial Relationships and even marriages were “trying out something different” for the fun of it, only to find something more special.

The pros of interracial dating include:

1. You Experience and Learn About a Different Culture

From trying out cuisines from Africa or Asia or Latin America, to traveling to another continent, and experiencing a different family structure or society set-up, the adventure that comes with interracial dating is exciting. You also get exposed to new ideas and beliefs.

2. You Help Break Stereotypes and Represent Progress

By being with someone from a difference race, you and those who get to interact with your partner get to understand their race, and demystify misconceptions about their homeland and/or people. This may never earn you the Noble Prize but your life might inspire others to follow the path of embracing diversity, or encourage an interracial couple that is struggling with prejudice and such.

3. You Get The Opportunity To Run Away

With two homes flung continents away, going home might always double up as family vacation. Not to mention you might get a double of the good things – like having a modern wedding in America and a traditional one in India.

 

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Sean Galvin and Tiffany Galvin – Interracial Dating Couple Story

This is me and the best thing that ever came into my life… Senior prom…. We ended up the day of prom linking up as I wasn’t going to go and her date had something come up….. We were good friends through highschool lost touch for over 8 years and thankfully for Facebook I saw she was coming in to visit for the holidays. I wasn’t letting the opportunity for her to slip away again happen….. Needless to say we started dating long distance for a while and did what we had to seeing each other every chance we had. Plenty of nights talking until one just fell asleep we would mail each other letters and pictures, this woman has been there with me through it all and has never let me settle always pushing for greatness. There are times where I know I test her patience but there is nothing I wouldn’t do for her the love for her could never be measured as there is no number high enough . I love you baby Tiffany Galvin

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I’m with her. I got her. Till they put me in the ground – Interracial Dating Couple Story

We met November 2nd, 2011 through mutual friends. She was 23 and I was 22 & we hit it off pretty quickly and started dating about 3 weeks after meeting. I knew very quickly that she was the one for me. She was everything & more that I wanted and needed in a wife. She loved God & me, was faithful, intelligent, hardworking, wanted kids, & funny. We got engaged & we got married on June 2nd, 2012, exactly 7 months to the day we first met & I’ve never regretted my decision to make her my wife 😀. It Also helps that she has a Bangin body as well Lol.

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The pic on the left is from me and Jana’s 2nd date back in 2011 and the one on the right is from yesterday. A lot has happened since 2011 and I’m proud to be this gorgeous woman’s husband. Till death do us part..5 years ago today, I asked this woman to be my wife. Never regretted that decision. I love you Mrs. English.

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5 Reasons Why Interracial Dating is Awesome

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I didn’t realize that I was in an Interracial Relationship until someone told me. And that someone was my girlfriend. We were dating for a couple of weeks, and our native languages were different. We were born in different countries and we have been exposed to different cultures. But I didn’t really think our races seemed to be worthy of mention until the entire world together with my girlfriend decided to get interested in how our (non-existent) children would look like. And now that I think about it, despite its flaws, interracial dating is pretty awesome.

1. Beautiful Kids

All kids are beautiful, but somehow there is an added expectation that mixed kids are more beautiful. This may be completely untrue but it’s nice to know that if you ever decide to have kids, they will be created from a larger and more diverse genetic pool. It is also scientifically proven that the further you are racially, the lower chances of genetic complications.

2. Learn a New Language

OK maybe not fully learn but at least pick up a few romantic phrases and some swear words from each other. My girlfriend is better at picking up my mother tongue than I am, and sometime when I speak to my grandparents she knows what’s going on. And it’s incredibly cute when she tries to use some of the words on me although her pronunciation sucks. I only know about 2 phrases and 5 words, and 3 of them are inappropriate for public use.

3. Food

If there is a huge perk of dating someone outside your race, it is the food you get to enjoy. You don’t only get to eat amazing native dishes; you also get a personal commentary of each dish’s history and its role in your partner’s culture. And if both your parents are aware of your relationship, it makes it even easier for you guys to go over to each other’s houses and enjoy an array of Amazing food, lovingly cooked by the mothers. And if you are lucky, even the specialties of the grandmothers.

4. Challenge Stereotypes

While stereotypes may be true, they are nasty little blinding forces that hinder you from getting to know people more authentically.  When you love someone different from yourself, you expose yourself to diversity and realize that it’s OK for people to be different. You don’t foolishly say things like “He’s a (insert race), that’s why he’s like that.”

5. Grow Stronger

Every relationship has its problems but somehow an interracial relationship seem to have more because of the possibilities of disapproving family, friends or society. When both parties are mentally and emotionally strong to endure these problems, they find themselves growing closer and stronger as a couple with each passing day. After all, what’s life without a few bumps right? How can we appreciate something if it’s super easily attained or maintained?

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I’m Christine from Tunisia and my fiance is from Ivory Coast and he lives here in Tunisia. We met online(Facebook). Well he fall in love with me before we met and I told him I won’t accept before seeing you 😁 once I saw him I fall directly in love with him 😁.

we met after about 2 months now he is went back to his country preparing himself for our official engagement and I’m here waiting for him 🙂 . My family is not against our relationship but they always consider him as “inferior “.

Our Relationship is Going well despite the fact that I didn’t see him for 2 months. we’re always together online

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