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An eyebrow will go up, a jaw will drop, or some eyes will pop wider when you say you are in an Interracial Relationship. It’s never dating as usual.
You can opine all men and women are the same regardless of their skin color, but you will not wish away the stares, the scrutiny, and sometimes undisguised disapproval.
Interracial Dating is widely treated differently than other kinds of dating. Some of the reasons as to why this happens include:
1. Fear of the Unknown
You may be head-over-heels in love with your African queen or Asian prince charming, but your family and friends might have reservations. Oftentimes, this is a result of lack of knowledge, or just misconceptions about a given race. In that case, your partner may face rejection.
2. Pain of Social Prejudice
According to the American Heritage College Dictionary, prejudice is “an adverse judgment or opinion formed beforehand or without knowledge or examination of the facts” or “irrational suspicion or hatred of a particular group, race or religion.”
Racism is a contentious subject. A topic that most people prefer to sweep under the carpet. However, there are people who don’t shy from disapproving interracial relationships. On the streets, they give interracial couples dagger eyes, say mean things, and in worse scenes assault them. Dealing with this is no walk in the park. It takes a lot of inner strength and that makes interracial dating different.
3. Cultural Differences
Every race has its own ways of being, and of doing things. Every race has its mannerisms, expectations, preferences, cultural practices, traditions, and heritage. Some are major, others are subtle, and others are largely common or acceptable across the board.
On the variation, the way an Asian man will treat his lady is different from the way a Caucasian or an African would. This is because the society that people grow up in does shape them. We grow to accept some things (good or bad) and behave a certain way thanks to what we saw around us as kids.
The things that matter or even days that are significant to a given race are not the same as another’s. For instance, Caucasians are keen on Birthdays, Africans are not. Caucasian men are known to find it easier to help around the house with chores, but that does not come naturally from African and Asian men. Additionally, Caucasian women are more expressive than their counterparts from other continents.
In an interracial relationship, such things might bring about unhealthy friction. To avoid the hassle, most people would rather stick to dating from their own race.
That said, dating from another race can be fun and very fulfilling. Thankfully, unlike in the past, finding a soul mate with a different skin color is only a click away. There so many Interracial Dating Sites, all dedicated to connecting couples from different races.
In 2015, USA Today reported that more than one-third of new marriages budded online. Matter of fact, one in every five relationships started on the internet.
With this new trend – of finding mates online, interracial dating gained popularity. It is estimated that 70% of interracial relationships began online.
The probable reason is that people who were yearning for interracial relationships but did not have an idea where to start their search now just need internet and a computer. Voila! exotic partner.
Some of those who are in Serious Interracial Relationships and even marriages were “trying out something different” for the fun of it, only to find something more special.
The pros of interracial dating include:
1. You Experience and Learn About a Different Culture
From trying out cuisines from Africa or Asia or Latin America, to traveling to another continent, and experiencing a different family structure or society set-up, the adventure that comes with interracial dating is exciting. You also get exposed to new ideas and beliefs.
2. You Help Break Stereotypes and Represent Progress
By being with someone from a difference race, you and those who get to interact with your partner get to understand their race, and demystify misconceptions about their homeland and/or people. This may never earn you the Noble Prize but your life might inspire others to follow the path of embracing diversity, or encourage an interracial couple that is struggling with prejudice and such.
3. You Get The Opportunity To Run Away
With two homes flung continents away, going home might always double up as family vacation. Not to mention you might get a double of the good things – like having a modern wedding in America and a traditional one in India.
We met Online ( interracial dating sites ) over 2 yrs ago and last few months have been amazing.We made it official in Sep,chatting back and forth for months before he flew to Florida from Michigan.This man has stole my heart in such a short period of time.I knew the moment i saw him in person it was love at first sight.
He is the most genuine,loving,amazing man,the most unique characteristics in ones soul .
I was brought a man that’s rare and one in a million and i’m glad we have this opportunity to not only love again but to..
We are dating to 7 years and 9 months, we are good friends , we met because he is brother of a friend of mine . he is my partner , my best friend, my love , my all . Our relationship is not perfect , but our love is perfect .
Maybe within 3 years will marry !!Our first met was at his Grand Mother.Well, our started to chat in msn, chat with sms… And sometimes i saw his in disco, party .Our relatives have not any problem. Normally they accepted our relationship . and he is very near to my house and I am dear to his house . We not have races mixing problems.
I want to be the one you choose when everyone else wants you !! 😍😊
I don’t need someone perfect! I need someone who loves me, respects me, cares for me, and understands me !!❤️
Larsatar: When I say I love you , I do not say out of habit . I say this to remind you that you are the best thing that happened in my life.
Lara Felicia: Awwwww thank You so much love ! You are my everything!! I love You today, tomorrow and forever ❤️😍 ! My prince 💑.
Marry your best friend.The simple truth is that happy marriages are based on a deep friendship. By this, I mean a mutual respect for and enjoyment of each other’s company .. ❤️❤️❤️